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How to have a long-term relationship?

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Pooja

Love, the most beautiful feeling in the world. Love of a mother, father, siblings, partner or friends, all the different relationships has its different meaning of love. But all require the same factors to grow and maintain among people. Love is never enough for anybody and all wants more, after all, it’s a great feeling to be loved and to love.

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People, especially the youth, nowadays consider this word “relationship” a difficult one and hard to maintain its flavour, while in reality, I feel, it just requires some simple facts, and then you can see the love and relationships never get fade away and will always bloom among the people. Let’s discuss a few of them:

Honesty: 

Being honest for any relationships, whether, they are friends, family or professional, is always a good sign for the long-term relationship. This is one of the important ingredients to make a healthy relationship. Well, sometimes you can cheat if the case is to surprise them or making some celebrations. That’s allowed!

Give Time: 

Time is money! Yes, it is true I feel, especially in case of maintaining a relationship. I know it’s tough for most of you in your busy schedule, but if want some people in your small world, you have to make some time for them. Whether it is any kind of relationship, give your time to them. 

Spending time with close ones will surely make both, relaxed and happy. Spend time with grandparents, they literary want that only from you and nothing. Go for a walk with your partner, sometime with your friend or father and enjoy the precious time. 

Also, the people who are staying away from their family, just call them and talk, give your 10 minutes to them, I think that much you can surely do.

Sharing: 

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Talk and talk. Ohhh, they are angry, keep talking. Hehe..funny, isn’t it? But that is the solution, if your loved ones are sad or upset, ask them, make them comfortable and know the reasons, but yeah, avoid if they are getting irritated and want to be alone for some time. Well, it depends on person to person. 

But at last, know their problem, their thoughts and then work on it. Hiding things might result in disasters for a relationship. So keep sharing and keep irritating your dear ones. (Just kidding)

Care/Comfort: 

Being special is always a great feeling. Right? And, if somebody care for you, in reaction you feel happy and special. Keep caring for your dear ones to assure that you are the one, who will always be there with them, no matter what happens. Make them comfortable by talking some casual things sometimes if required to make the relationship healthier and beautiful.

Give Respect: 

This is again a very important factor in any relationship. This is also the most needed ingredient to maintain a long-term relationship. If two people don’t respect each other, surely the relationship won’t last long. Give respect, earn respect!

Compromise/Sacrifice:

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NO NO, Don’t take it in anything negative. This should not be always in a negative way, sometimes by sacrificing small thing, means a lot to the other person. It makes both the person happy and close. Parents are the best example for this. And, I’m sure many of your parents sacrificed something for you, right? Now, it’s your turn, do little sacrifice and give them something special, what they desire. Something good you do to others will surely come to you. Well, this is just a tip not mandatory.

Celebrate: 

Yeah, this I can take as a mandatory one. (don’t be shocked, joking guys) Don’t become a machine but enjoy with your loved ones, to refresh the love you share with each other and yeah, make some celebrations. Go for some romantic dinner with your partner. Everybody gets bored from their usual routine, and this is the truth. At least, I agree on this. After any celebration, either it’s a small one, it creates the enthusiasm for everything you do, also take the people closer and make the relationships better.

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