What are some red flags to watch out for in daily life?

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There are many red flags which can show up early in a relationship. This is for people who fall in love quickly and you must be aware of these red flags so that you don't waste time with people that are not meant for you.

Having gone through many relationships and wasting of many years in my life with the wrong partners, this is a list I wish had been able to read when I was a teenager.

So here are some red flags to watch out:-

How they talk about their ex:

If your partner talks all the time about your exes or always thinks about the exes then this is negative, this means they haven't finished emotionally. So watch out.

They don't seem to be proud of you:

If they hesitate to introduce you to their friends, family or they don't want to post any pictures with you on social media then these types of behaviors speak that they are not proud to have you. I couldn't stop talking about my partner in every relationship because whatever happened to me was one of the greatest things. So I wanted to show them off to everyone.

If your partner feels that they are a little ashamed of you than that might be a red flag.

They use you as a sex tool:

Sexual intimacy is a mutually beneficial act that makes both parties feel loved.

If they use sex as a tool to get what they want then this is a red flag. This behavior is manipulation pure and simple.

"If you make dinner we can have sex tonight..." RED FLAG

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They don't put efforts in the relationship:

If your partner doesn't put efforts in the relationship it doesn't feel good to be in one sided relationship.

If one person doesn't invest as the other then it is a lose situation. So save yourself and wait for the perfect partner who will make you a priority in their life.

They find it hard to apologize:

In any relationship, it's inevitable that you both are going to mess up and need to apologize. If your partner doesn't have the ability to apologize for any wrong work then you need to re-evaluate your relationship.

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They constantly try to change you:

 In a relationship, if you make a person better than before then it is the best thing, but it feels like they treat you more of a project than a partner, then this is a huge red flag.

If they don't accept you for whom you are, then they weren't meant for you.

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